I'm working on my smutty_claus piece and it's got me thinking about what I look for in this type of writing. I've read pieces written by my giftee and I'm just having a hard time figuring out if they'll like what I'm going with. How do I make it seem hot to me when this person probably has a different definition of what's sexy?
Last year I had fewer reservations about my gift. How much thought do you guys put into the prompts/suggestions people put down for exchanges?